Tayari's Blog: December 2007
December 31, 2007
Much Love to Our Guest Bloggers!
This year, a number of members of our blog community were kind enough to share thier experiences with the rest of us. As we bid goodbye to 2007, I wanted to thank them for thier contribuitions. Here's a little recap of thier generous offerings:
Thank you, thank you, so much for sharing with us. I look forward to more group-love in 2008!
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The Writing Life
December 29, 2007
Alice Walker Gives Her Papers to Emory
Just before the holiday break, Alice Walker's papers arrived at Emory Univeristy. As I understand it, a writer's papers are anything of her life that she has saved. This can be highschool journals, scrap books, drafts of novels, snapshots-- whatever evidence she chooses to hand over.
There was a point in my own life when I used to save all sorts of stuff. (My father once told me that W.E.B. Dubois started saving his papers at 12. I was about ten at the time and figured that this was a good a time as any to get started.) I am not sure what happened to all those carefully preserved slips of paper. I can't remember throwing them away, but my parents have moved twice since then and I am pretty sure that no one wanted to save my pop-sickle stick collection for posterity.
But on to Alice Walker. She says that she chose Emory for its location in the south, its relationship with the Dalai Lama, and because of all the other wonderful authors who have chosen to deposit thier papers in its care. (Langston Hughes!)
Not that anyone is asking for my papers, but I would imagine that it is pretty tough to decide where to store them. My impulse would be to put them at my alma mater, Spelman College. Afterall, this is where I became a writer. But at the same time, I don't know if Spelman would have the resources of a place like Emory to store and care for the papers. Also, a person would want her papers to be in a place that is frequented by scholars.
Anyway, I will be certainly going to Emory to check out Alice Walker's archives when they are open to the public. I have always been fascinated by her life. (More on that in another post.)
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December 27, 2007
I'm Back!
I'm easing back into blogging with a little link-a-dink.
be haters, but Melonyce McAfee has a soft spot for the other December holiday:My simple defense of Kwanzaa is that in the short time that we celebrated the holiday, it brought my family together. We weren't hitting the after-Christmas sales or trying out our new bicycles. We were kneeling around an altar and watching as the water ran from the jug in my brother's hands.
2007 started out badly for me, and got worse. I was unhappy, and getting more so. I was mourning my old life, where I had the perfect job, in the perfect place to live, and had ever so perfectly spent my free time happily studying writing. Here, in this new place, I was sad, but so stressed and busy that I did not have time to do any of the things that make me happy (like writing).
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December 23, 2007
Christmas in Canada!
I am blogging from Montreal. I would send pictures, but it is raining and yucky and, well, just not very photogenic. The blogging will slow down between now and the holidays. I am really trying to get in touch with my fiction writing again.
It's been a great year, but I am pretty tired. Why it is so hard to admit when you're exhausted? Have a great holiday everyone. I'll be back soon.
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December 20, 2007
Office Hour Links
As I am waiting on my darling undergraduates to turn in their finals, here are some things worth checking out.
"No, she wouldn't be a good table dancer. Look how close the heel of that boot is to the table. **Lee pointing at monitor with an ink pen**"One more inch and she's on the floor. She don't need to be dancing in nobody's club."
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December 19, 2007
Blog Holiday Customs
As this blog is only a couple years old, and I have serious holiday anxiety, we just haven't established too many holiday traditions here. But there are a few. Three to be exact. And here they are.
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December 16, 2007
Guest Blogger: Sarah Schulman
Sarah Schulman is mentioned quite often on this blog
because everytime I go out with her, she tells me something I just have to share. Last night, Rigoberto and I were at her home for dinner, and it happened again.
"Did I tell you that Grace Paley was my teacher?" No, she hadn't told me this. She also hadn't told me that she was enrolled in graduate school for exactly one day. And then she told her how Grace Paley saved her life as a writer. "Please," I said. "Will you write it up for my blog community?"
She did, and the story is below. Grace Paley passed away this year at the age of 84.
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Thank you, Grace
A Remembrance by
Sarah Schulman
For ten years I worked as a waitress, and during that time I started publishing books. I really didn't know what an MFA was. But as a waitress at Leroy's, which was the first coffee shop in Tribeca, a lot of our customers were artists just moving into that neighborhood. A friend- got me the job. We were collaborating on plays with titles like "Art Failures", which we performed at The University of The Streets, then on the cheap, and deserted Avenue A. My friend was also a painter and the painters I knew, knew about MFAs. But I was not aware that writers could also get them.
This was probably 1984, when the gentrification of the city was already underway- and a cultural shift was accompanying it. As part of yuppification, the arts were "professionalizing", this meant that work was coming less and less from community and more and more from institutions. There was a kind a Apparatus being put into place that - like most structures of American life right after Reagan's election- was replacing sixtiesque values of access and expression, expansion of representation. This professionalization favored more mainstream and dominant cultural voices and styles and made it harder for civilians to gain access.
After talking to a number of customers I realized that MFAs were increasingly giving people professional advantages, and increasingly excluding those without, so I decided to pursue one of those degrees. Since my work had lesbian protagonists, and was political, I already had enough problems, and I hoped that "getting inside" would help me along. I applied to the graduate program in writing at City College because it was in Manhattan and the cheapest, and I was accepted. In my naivete I didn't fully realize that the City College program was actually an MA. But since it was a graduate writing program, in my mind, it was an MFA.
The first day I went to class, and the teacher was Grace Paley. Grace was the "people's choice" emblematic New York writer. She was Jewish, she was on the left and an active participant citizen. I had participated in many political actions that she was involved in over the years, most memorably the 1979 Women's Pentagon Action. She wrote stories about people's need for justice that were true, complex and funny. And she was both extraordinary and regular. Her three beloved short story collections were : Enormous Changes At The Last Minute, Little Disturbances Of Man, and Later The Same Day. What I now realize is that, despite how well known and beloved she was, she had to work for a living for most of her life. I believe that at that time she was teaching at City College and at Sarah Lawrence.
During the first class session, we sat around a table, and each student read a sample of their own work. Mine, was a lesbian story written in the first person, and my classmates thought that the protagonist was a man. I started to worry about spending the next two years in that environment. Was getting an MFA going to be a endless process of self-justification?
After class, Grace said "Come to my office."
I went to her office and she sat me down. All the warm and fuzzy stuff went out of her demeanor, and she spoke very directly and with a real sense of gravitas.
"Look," she said. "You're really a writer. You're really doing it. You don't need this class."
I felt really relieved. So, I went home and never came back. That's how I had only one day of graduate school. She saved me two years of explaining myself. She knew better than I did what the process would have done to me. It could have destroyed me. That was one of the most important moments in my life as a writer. When someone with authority actually understood the value of what I was doing, understood what the machinery was about, and stepped up to honestly protect me with respect and care.
Now that I have taught writing for 15 years, I can see that many of these programs still don't really know what to do with writers of color, lesbian students, sometimes with gay male students. You hear a lot of "survival" stories, and realize that many current writing programs in 2007, cannot offer minority students the same quality of
experience as they offer to majority students.
This story has two happy endings: 1) Now I am a Full Professor of English in the City University of New York, College of Staten Island. 2) I later read with Grace and Sonia Sanchez at a reading at Saint Mark's Church at a benefit organized by the late Laurel Shreck for The Committee In Solidarity of The People Of El Salvador. It was one of the most exciting, proud moments of my life.
For the next twenty years, Grace Paley encouraged me every time we met. She nominated me for PEN, she got me a teaching gig at The Provincetown Fine Arts Work Center. Whenever we saw each other, she would say "I keep an eye on you. You're doing so well. I'm so proud of you." This made the difference every time.
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December 14, 2007
and speaking of gifts...
a certain member of our blog comminity crochetted me an afghan. It arrived in so much bubble wrap and other protection (certified mail, signature, etc) that I thought it was a flat screen TV! This, of course, would have been a problem since I don't even have cable, let alone HD! Anyway, I opened up the carton and received a box full of love.
Just call me Linus as I drag it from room to room!
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Holday Dos and Don'ts
It's that time of year again. It's time to go shopping for the writers in your life. As we all know, there is a fine line between a good gift and one that sort of sucks. Here's a little help to get your good intentions on track.
DON'T give a book on How to Get Published. The last thing a writer needs is outside pressure to produce results. It's like giving your single sister and book called "You, Too, Can Find A Man!" It's just not nice.
DO give a book about writing. For beginners try Bird by Bird by Anne Lammot. I also recommend On Moral Fiction for people who are father along. This gift shows that you take their writing seriously, that you respect thier intellectual activities.
DON'T give a book that is very similar in plot to a project that he or she is working on. I know you just want the writer to know are thinking of her, but it is such a buzz-kill to find out just how many people have already explored your idea. For example, when I was working on Leaving Atlanta, the last thing I needed was a copy of Toni Cade Bambara's book on the same subject. Of course I understand that there room enough for more than one book on the same topic, but Those Bones Are Not My Child, would have been a disaster as a holiday gift.
DO give a book that is thematicaly related. If your friend is writing a story about mother-daughter relationships, she couple probably enjoy a book on the same theme set in a completely different era or setting.
DON'T give a pen just because you like what it looks like.
DO give a gift certificate to a pen shop. Many writers like a nice pen, but choosing a pen is like choosing a pair of jeans or a handbag. You really need to handle it and try it out first.
DON'T get too specific. The writer in your life will appreciate writing-related gifts, but dictionaries, thesauri, pens, and journals may be just a little on-task sometimes.
DO give her something just shows that you appreciate her and know that she works hard. You can make any gift a meaningful gift for a writer if you affix a card. A sinple gift like a bath set can become a vote of confidence for the writer in your life if you put a little note saying "I know you have been working hard on your novel. Here's a little something to help you relax."
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December 12, 2007
Meme-Of-The-Month Club!
Ed Champion has tagged me for a very unsual meme. The blogger has to post the first line of the first post of each month of 2007. Okie dokie. Here goes--
Okay, Carleen, Ladylee, Reggie H , and Janice, let's see what you have been up to this year!
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December 11, 2007
Welcome Aboard, Rigoberto
It's offical! Rigoberto Gonzalez has signed on to join the full-time faculty at Rutgers-Newark. I know I said it before, but I'll say it again. If you're interested in MFA programs, check us out.
Rigoberto's website will give you the highlights of his career. Also, check out his guest posts at the Poetry Foundation Blog. He is brilliant, yes? Don't you wish he was your professor?
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Real Lives, Real Stories
End Of Semster!
Today is the last day of classes for this semester. As you can see from the photo, I am so happy and looking forward to the break. Starting up a new MFA program is a lot of work, but in a very good way.
I have to tell you that last year, when Jayne Anne Phillips called me up and asked me to join her at Rutgers, I was a little bit scared. I had a comfy position at the University of Illinois. Things were quiet and safe out in the cornfields. The program there was already up and running and I was pretty much a shoo-in for tenure. But Jayne Anne had a vision of a program with the motto "Real Lives, Real Stories."
If you are a "real" person with a real story and are looking for an MFA program, check us out!
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December 10, 2007
Great Things Are Happening...
to people who read this blog!
Got good news? Send it here. We love good news.
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December 07, 2007
Mac and Cheese
The great Maud Newton is running a holiday series in which writers submit thier favorite holiday recipes. (She's so clever!) I figured the world has seen my red velvet cake recipe way too many times. (Also, that cake has 300 Weight Watchers points! I did the math! That's about two weeks worth of calories!) Anyway, so I sent her my mac and cheese recipe.
The question was: what to call it? I always think of it as a African-American style Mac and Cheese-- the qualities that make it "black" are that it is baked and there are NO bread crumbs. Then, I started thinking: who made ME and my mac and cheese the authority to decide what food is black and what isn't (But I can't help thinking that my mac and cheese is truly colored.)
Then, this got me to thinking about literature (what doesn't?) and Obama (tis the season), and I decided to call my dish a SOUTHERN Mac and Cheese. For some reason, there doesn't seem to be much hullabaloo about what's southern and what's not and all soul food is southern food.
So, with no further ado, hike on over to Maud's house and see my recipe!
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December 06, 2007
Love You Some Luther?
Check out the Luther Vandross Estate Sale.
(I know, I know.. I am not being very literary these days. It's the end of semester and I am sort of slammed. I'll be brainy and high-minded again, soon. I promise.)
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December 04, 2007
Sweet as a Georgia Peach!
I must say that I love Sharon Jones And The Dap Kings. I know this video seems retro, but this is a new video. Sharon Jones is from Augusta, Georgia-- home of James Brown and Jessye Norman. (Must be something in the water.) You can hear a great interview on Fresh Air.
Thanks, Katie Bear, for the link!
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December 02, 2007
Back To Work Links
Birthfest is over. And now it's time to get back to work. Here are a few links while I get my consitution together.

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