Tayari's Blog: Living For The City

June 19, 2010

48 Magical Hours


Sisterhood is Global
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The last two days have been amazing in every way. On Thursday, I spent the morning at Cozbi where I posed for a few photographs. It was so much fun for Amilcar (Cozbi's husband) to take the pictures while Cozbi did art direction. I'll post some of the shots here next week.

Then, it was off to the Tenement Museum for my Q&A with Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie. I had never really talked to her before and I didn't quite know what to expect. I mean, I knew she was brilliant, but I didn't know she was going to be so, well, cool. We got down to the nitty gritty with the Q&A and many members of this blog community were in the audience. The whole thing was filmed by The Africa Channel, which is on most cable networks. (You have to click that link for the featured video alone!)

We talked about many things including writing as advocacy. She expanded upon "The Danger of A Single Story." She also spoke moving about her reluctance to embrace the term "black" and why she changed her mind. There were also lighter moments when we talked about process and laughed at ourselves. It was a beautiful evening all around.

Friday was Part II of Chimamandapalooza. She was the headline reader at the final installment of the 2010 Chapters Reading Series, sponsored by Girls Write Now. Chimamanda read "Cell One", from her new collection The Thing Around Your Neck. She left us all hypnotized with her reading. And then, as always, our amazing teen writers proceeded to steal the show.

Afterwards, Chimamanda was mobbed by the crowd. I watched our girls get their books signed with a little feeling of envy. Lauren Cerand said it best, "I never got to meet anybody this cool when I was a teenager."

I didn't either. But that's the whole point of Girls Write Now-- to give the next generation the gift of progress.

Photo taken at B Bar by the fabulous Rachel Eliza Griffiths.

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May 22, 2010

SWEET was Really Sweet


It Was All Love
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This post is long overdue, but I was waiting on the photos. You may remember a few weeks ago that I told you that I was participating in SWEET!: Actors Reading Writers. It was such a wonderful event.

Here's the idea: The writer gives an actor about 5-7 pages of work, which the actor thinks of as a script. All genres were represented-- fiction, memoir, and poetry. On the big night, the actor goes up on stage and reads the piece. This the brainchild of the writer Shelly Oria and the actor Annie Levy.

(Sidebar: I met Shelly after I chose her excellent story, New York 1, Tel Aviv 0, for the Indiana Review Prize. It was such a kick to meet the woman behind the words.)

Heather Alicia Simms' performance of The Silver Girl was first on the agenda. I really lucked out is having such a talented and accomlished actor assigned to my work! She really put her foot in it. She made my character, Laverne, pop to life. I would love it if Heather were chosen to narrate my audio book. When she was done with her outstanding performance, I leapt to my feet, clapping and hollering like a manic. I only wish I knew how to whistle. (That's us in the photo. I was just so thrilled!)

Darin Strauss shared his brave and complex new memoir. Half A Life deals with Darin's life after a fatal car accident in which a bicyclist was killed. I wondered what it must have felt like to see the actor, Michael Bradley Cohen, reading from Half a Life. In fiction, the "I" is not the author, but in memoir it is. How must it felt see your own words and feelings be expressed by someone who is not you, but who is saying "I" this and "me" that. Add to this that Darin's memoir is very intense and very personal.



SWEET is on hiatus for the summer, but you should definitely check it out in the fall. You'll have a good time, I promise.

(and here are some pictures from the event.)

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May 21, 2010

Marie Matsuki Mockett Tonight, in NYC


GWN Has the Best Reading Series in NYC
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You all know that I believe that Girls Write Now is the most awesome after school program, but you don't have to take my word for it. Just ask Michelle Obama.

For the third reading in our CHAPTERS reading series, we will feature Marie Matsuki Mockett, author of Picking Bones From Ash. You may remember Marie's guest post on this blog, The Perfect Age To Be Published, which is about debuting when you're not a spring chicken anymore.

Come on out to hear her read and also to hear from our amazing teen writers and their mentors. And if you can't make it, how about you mozey on over to our website and make a donation to Girls Write Now.

Here are the deets:

Tonight, May 21, 2010
Center for Fiction
17 East 47th Street bet. 5th Ave. & Madison
6:00PM to 8:00PM

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May 01, 2010

SWEET!


Heather is a Silver Girl, too
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This Thursday there will be a sneak-peek at my new novel, The Silver Girl, at SWEET: Actors Reading Writers. SWEET is a really cool series where the writers turn over five or so pages of material and actors interpret. My work will be read by Heather Alicia Simms, whom I met yesterday at a cafe in Brooklyn. She's a terrific actor with gorgeous credentials-- August Wilson on Broadway, y'all! (Right: Please note that in this cast photo from The Brother/Sister Plays, she is wearing a silver dress!) Also featured will be the work of Matthew Aaron Goodman, one of the Amazing Eight.


If you're in NYC on Thursday, Come on out. Here are the deets.

Date: Thursday, May 6, 2010
Time: 7:30pm - 8:45pm
Location: Three of Cups, 83 First Ave @ 5th St.

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October 29, 2009

Go, Go, Jericho!


Congratulations, You Handsome Genius
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Last night, I went to the Whiting Awards ceremony. The Whiting has always been a little weird for me. As I understand it, the lucky winners get a magic phone call way back in September and they have to keep it under wraps until the ceremony. The winners are usually folks with one book, sometimes two. At the ceremony the ten writers were described as being at the "start" of their careers. This year, I figured I have sort of aged out of the running, so I could attend the ceremony without feeling like a kid who wasn't picked for the kickball team.

So, with a light heart, I went to the ceremony. On the train ride over, Rigoberto and I were speculating about who the winners would be. I said JERICHO BROWN. Afterall, his debut poetry collection, Please, has won the American Book Award. He's in Cambridge, as a Bunting Fellow. And, simply put, he's brilliant, gorgeous, and everyone loves him. When I walked into the auditorium, there he was and I could not have been more pleased for him.

Another winner was Nami Mun. I was also tickled to death to see her wearing the signature white rose that says "I just won $50,000. I met her a couple of years ago at MacDowell when she was still trying to score an agent. Now look at her.

The charming keynote was given my Margaret Atwood. For the life of me, I can't remember what she said. I thinkshe said something like this work won't make you rich, unless it doees. But if you do it right it will repair your soul. (Or maybe that's my fantasy.) Maybe said said that writing doen right will repair the world. Yeah, I think the latter. She kept glancing behind her at the winners with such affecton that made it feel like we writers are one big happy family and everything is going to work out in the end.

Other winners here. And a few random snapshots here.

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October 03, 2009

If I Wasn't Going to Be Out of Town Next Week

I would so be at this!

Thursdat, October 8, Cornelia Street Cafe, in NYC:

6:00PM QUETZAL QUILL: An Evening of Poetry Rigoberto Gonzales, host

BLAS FALCONER, A Question of Gravity and Light
TYEHIMBA JESS, leadbelly
HELENA MESA, Horse Dance Underwater
SUSAN B.A. SOMERS-WILLET, Roam & Quiver

Cover $7 (includes one house drink)

When you go, make sure you tell them I sent you.

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June 04, 2009

3 Good Reasons to Move to NYC

If you lived in NYC, you could attend all three of these great literary events, each to benefit an excellent cause.

  • Mosaic's spring benefit at a gorgeous brownstone Harlem: Sunday, June 7, 2pm
  • "Literary Night" at PS11 in Brooklyn and be entertained by Colson Whitehead, Toure, and others: Friday, June 5, 7pm
  • Girls Write Now Annual Spring Reading and prepared to be totally inspiredby our brilliant high school writers, thier mentors, and special guest Jean Thompson: Sunday June 14, 4pm

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  • April 01, 2009

    TJ and ToMo @ NYU

    Tayari and ToMo

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    August 29, 2008

    Up South

    My creationLast night, I went to Housing Works to celebrate the publication of the 2008 edition of New Stories from the South, edited by ZZ Packer. What a fun time was had by all.

    Did you know that ZZ Packer is a southern writer? Well she is. A Georgia Peach, to be exact. She explained that she was drawn to stories that were southern, with a small "s". To demonstrate this, Brett Anthony Johnson and Stephanie Dickneson read their short stories to show us how it's done.

    There was a trivia quiz-- to which I knew hardly any of the answers. (It's what ZZ writes about it introduction-- there is more than one south. I'm from the other one.) There was also food. "Crawfish Cheesecake" is so much yummier than it sounds. Imagine a cross between the cornbread dressing and macaroni and cheese. Add a pinch a cayenne pepper and some crawfish tails. I know. It sounds crazy, but it was delish. (Kind of like shrimp and grits-- tasty in the mouth, but crazy sounding when you see it on a menu.)

    Such a fun party. Algonquin books is such a fantastic host and Maud Newton MCed it just right and got us all out in time to get home to watch the Democratic convention.. The bloggers-- Nichelle & Nichelle were in the house, as well as short-story goddess, Julie Orringer. The highlight, of course, was meeting Isabel, a member of our blog community. Keep writing, Miss Lady.

    photos!

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    August 28, 2008

    Z.Z. Packer in NYC!


    Got To Be there!

    Don't forget about the party tonight. (I guess I should say the *other* party tonight.)

    On Thursday, August 28, at 7 pm, Algonquin is sponsorong an evening with ZZ Packer to celebrate the publication of the 2008 New Stories From The South. There will be food, there will be Maud, there will be trivia, and PRIZES. All you need to get in is a $5 donation. Proceeds will benefit KARES (Katrina Arts Relief and Emergency Support) and Housing Works.

    Here's a link to the invite in a size you can actually read.

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    August 24, 2008

    Plan ahead!

    Sarah Schulman, who knows everything about NYC called me yesterday to tell me to get my tickets early for events at the 92nd Street Y. I was too shy to tell her that I didn't even know which events were happening. They have some yummy stuff this season. Toni Morrison is reading on December 9. (Update: I think I have a connection to get an early copy of A Mercy. I'll keep you posted!) My terrific boss, Jayne Anne Phillips will be reading in February and Natasha Trethewey will be doing her thing in April.

    You can get your tix on line!

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    August 05, 2008

    There's A Party and We're Invited!


    Got To Be there!

    I just got the best invitation in the mail. And me, being me, I called to find out if I could tell EVERYBODY. Michael Taeckens, the publicity contact from Algonquin said yes, and now I am shouting it from the rooftops! Well, rooftops in NYC since this is where the party is being held.

    On Thursday, August 28, at 7 pm, Algonquin is sponsorong an evening with ZZ Packer to celebrate the publication of the 2008 New Stories From The South. There will be food, there will be Maud, there will be trivia, and PRIZES. All you need to get in is a $5 donation. Proceeds will benefit KARES (Katrina Arts Relief and Emergency Support) and Housing Works.

    Here's a link to the invite in a size you can actually read. You'll need to RSVP. This will be FUN.

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    July 26, 2008

    Street Life

    Leaving Atlanta on a Street Table!

    I was tootling down 6th Ave this afternoon and I stopped to look at the used book tables that stretch for a full three blocks in the West Village. And what did I see? My baby! Leaving Atlanta!

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    June 06, 2008

    Where There's Franco, There's Fun

    After I bought my favorite painting, "The Goya Gown" from Franco IDOL gossipMondini Ruiz last month, I have declared myself to be his biggest fan. I declared it really loud, actually, at the Smithsonian's George Gustav Heye Center. Franco was participating in a show called "Remix: New Modernities in a Post Indian World." It may seem odd to get really loud in a museum, especially a swanky NY museum, but Franco has a way of making anything seem appropriate.

    The other artists in the show were milling around, looking serious and stormy in thier black clothing while Franco was working the crowd saying "I'll make you a deal!" I bought the sculpture pictured here. It's called IDOL Gossip. Get it? I think I am going to take it to work and display it there.

    If Franco is every showing in your town, you have to go. It will be an experience, I promise.

    And speaking of The Goya Gown, I think it would make a lovely book cover. Franco does, too.

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    June 05, 2008

    Thomas Glave in NYC

    Thomas Glave Mosaic


    Last night I had the pleasure of meeting Thomas Glave at his reading at St. Marks in Manhattan. Thomas read from his open letter to the Prime Minister of Jamaica in response to his homophobia. Then he read a short story in the tradition of James Baldwin's "Going To Meet the Man" only the speaker is a woman and the topic is hair. He wrapped it up with an essay about the challenges of sharing the realities of his life with his straight friends.

    After the reading, I got to chat for a while. So smart, so charming, so critical. Everything I love in a writer.

    Links:

  • Interview with Steven Fullwood.
  • Glave featured in The Village Voice.
  • Glave's letter on why he felt he had to speak out.

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  • May 23, 2008

    Alice Smith @ The Highline

    Last night Tara B., Aisha M., and I went to the Highline to see Alice Smith in concert. The Alice going for the high notefirst time I go to see a singer do her thing live, I am halfway going just to verify that she can actually sing. A lot of people can make a decent record, but can she blow? Alice can. Alice did. No doubt about that.

    She is such a lovely singer that she deserved a better night than she had at the Highline. For one, the sound equipment was not together. Those speakers sounded like the ones in my car! (We are talking the factory speakers in a 1999 Altima. That's sad.) The second issue was the matter of her fans. Right at my left ear were two squealy girls who kept screaming "We love you Aliiiiiice!" Drove. Me. Crazy. And when they started to dance, they elbowed everyone within a three foot radius.

    Miz Alice herself has a sort of girl-next-door quality. Her clothes are simple and modest, which was really endearing. She smiled a lot like she was really happy to be there. She doesn't perform with a lot of flash, but she's solid and holds things down.

    I imagine that her stage presence will grow with time and experience. She's got the voice. She's really got it. That's the thing that matters.

    Goofy snapshots here.
    And a giveaway: At the concert promoters gave away a CD with three of Alice Smith's singles. If you are the first to email me with your mailing address, it's yours. We have a winner!

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    May 11, 2008

    Franco, My Love!

    I am so crazy about the artwork of Franco Mondini Ruiz. I had never Mine All Mine!heard of him until Rigoberto-- who knows everything-- took me to a gallery in Chelsea to see Franco's work. When I walked in, I saw the painting you see on the right. It's called "The Goya Gown" and I fell for it, hard. It was love at first sight. If I may risk over-sharing.. have you ever met someone and part of your attraction to the person is that you can see yourself in him? (Or maybe that means I am just a narcissistic freak.) Anyway, this is what happened with me and the painting. And then there's more.

    I didn't just see myself, I saw Dana, the main character of my new novel, THE OUTSIDE CHILD. The painting (larger picture here) is of a white, debutante style dress against a black background. I summarized it as "anger with ribbons." I think many of us know the feeling of resenting a standard while still striving to it. I was going on and on about the painting to the man standing next to me. I told him about my books. I told him about myself, about my family and why I loved the painting so much.

    He told me that Sandra Cisneros is one of the artist's major collectors. I said I was glad to see that MacArthur money to good use. I loved the painting, but I could never afford it. I was sure the gallery does not allow layaway! The man laughed. Then he introduced himself as Franco Mondini Ruiz, the artist. "We can work something out," he said.

    Forgive the snobby tone of the NYT article, but you can see what a good person Franco is. He thinks art should be for everyone.

    Well, to make a long story short: I now own the painting! Now here is the question. Does it go in my bedroom, or the writing room!

    (I just found this fascinating oral history of Franco and his family.)

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    May 01, 2008

    Do You Hear What I Hear?

    Go Aisha, Go!National Poetry Month is over. To help you out with the transition back into normal life, I will recap a wonderful event that I attended last week at NYU. CC poets Alvin Aubert, Randall Horton, Kamilah Aisha Moon, Mendi Obadike and Gwen Samuels read to celebrate the anthology The Ringing Ear: Black Poets Lean South.

    As we have come to expect from Cave Canem, the reading was outstanding. I was particularly knocked out by my good friend, Kamilah Aisha Moon. Isn't funny how you know some one, know she is brilliant, and then she reveals a whole 'nother layer? Her poetry collection "She Has A Name" is about her family's journey with her younger sister's autism. When Kamilah read a poem in her father's voice, the fiction writer in me had to sit up and take notice. All I can say is that she really inhabited that character. Wow. "She Has A Name" has not yet found a publisher. But it will. Mark. My. Words.

    Meanwhile, here are some photos I snapped at the event. As always, I thought they were cute, until I saw Rachel's...

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    April 22, 2008

    Poetry Up-South!

    To celebrate National Poetry Month,
    Cave Canem presents:
    The Ringing Ear Poets at New York University
    19 University Place,
    First Floor Auditorium,
    New York, New York
    Featuring
    Alvin Aubert, Randall Horton,
    Kamilah Aisha Moon, Mendi Obadike
    and Gwen Samuels.

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    April 18, 2008

    My Publicist, My Friend

    Lauren Cerand and Tayari Jones
    What a lovely day! I slept in and then headed to the Cornelia Street Cafe to meet with my friend/publicist, Lauren Cerand. We talked about the exciting projects she's working on, and we reminisced about the great events we did when we were working together. She gave me advice about my career and my life, while allowing me little peeks into the fabulousness that is the world of a young successful publicista. (As per usual, I learned a new term: "exy". It means expensive.) I left the lunch happy-- Lauren and I actually ate our food. We are not the NY types that go to lunch and just lick our cell phones for sustenance. We did damage to our steak and potatoes, a little wine, and a brownie sundae for desert. But the point of this post is that I walked away ready to work on my novel-in-progress. Why? Because I am so ready to work with Lauren again!

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    March 31, 2008

    One Reason to Love New York


    Subway Music


    Live music... on the subway.

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    March 10, 2008

    Tracie Morris @ The Stone

    On the weekend, I went with a bunch of the cool kids to The Stone, an avant Tracie Morrisgarde performance space in Alphabet City. The headliner: Tracie Morris and her band. It was raining like you wouldn't believe. I almost drowned getting out of the cab, but I made it, gasping for air.

    Tracie gave a multi-layered show, combining spoken word poetry, cabaret-style singing, and experimental work that put me in the mind of the daring work of the Black Took Collective. Wikipedia describes what she does as "sound art" and that feels just about right.

    Of all her performances, my favorites were re-arrangements of the classics. The stand-out was her performance of "Give It To Me Baby," made popular by the late Rick James. I wish I had recorded it. Tracie crooned it slow, accompanied by a mournful guitar. "Give It To Me" became a plea. This was not from the Spike Lee "please, baby, please" school of begging, but from the Luther Vandross, Superstar, "baby, baby, baby, oh, baby" (old) school of loneliness.

    If she's in your town catch her act. Make sure you bring your open mind and your open heart.

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    March 02, 2008

    All The Cool Kids Live in Brooklyn

    Colson Whitehead has an amusing piece in the NYT about the mythology of the "Brooklyn Writer." As a frustrated fiction writer marooned on the wrong side of the Holland Tunnel, I am glad to know that it is mostly hype.. though I must say that Mr. Whitehead is so over it that it makes it seem hipper than ever to live on the F train route. Here's one adorable, too-cool-for-school paragraph. To read the rest, go to the NYT.

    I have a hard time understanding all the hype. I dig it here and all, but it’s just a place. It does not have magical properties. In interviews, I get asked a lot, “What’s it like to write in Brooklyn?” I get invited to do panels with other Brooklyn writers to discuss what it’s like to be a writer in Brooklyn. I expect it’s like writing in Manhattan, but there aren’t as many tourists walking very slowly in front of you when you step out for coffee. It’s like writing in Paris, but there are fewer people speaking French.

    And lookie here, we have a snapshot of Colson Whitehead from AWP!

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    February 27, 2008

    A Tribute To Chinua Achebe

    Last night, Evie invited me to A Tribute To Chinua Achebe sponsored by Pen America. I was thrilled because the event was sold out. The reason? Not only is it the 50th Anniversary of Things Fall Apart, but the stars were out over Manhattan to celebrate. The Great Ms. M-- that is Toni Morrison--, Edwidge Danticat, Chris Abani, Chimamanda Ngozi Adiche, Ha Jin, and other powerhouses took to the stage to tell the world how much Achebe's work means to them. (And let me tell you, it means a lot. We were seated at 8pm and didn't get out until after 10pm!)

    Highlights:

  • Achebe said after completing Things Fall Apart, he sent his only copy to London to be typed-- via Nigerian mail! (My girl, Aisha, reading over my shoulder said, he really put Moses in the basket, didn't he?)
  • Chimamanda Ngozi Adiche grew up in a house formerly lived in by the Achebe family.
  • Chris Abani's brother plagiarized Achebe to pick up girls in high school.
  • In today's cult of celebrity, Achebe has achieved that rare feat-- his books are more famous than he is. In other words, these days, authors are often known by people who have not read thier books. Achebe's work is even more beloved than he is.

    No pics, sorry. There was a big sign saying "no cameras" and I was afraid of being kicked out. It was a literary event, but there were bouncers.

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  • February 11, 2008

    Sunday's My Fun Day

    Yesterday, I read at Sunday Salon in Williamsburg. Weather was bad in New York last night, The Main Eventbut a few brave souls came out to hear me, Matthew Cheny (he's one in the "fur" coat!), Frances Madeson, and Tony D'Souza. Where else could you come out to hear a stories about a man who married a tree, laundering dead bodies on the gentle cyle, a doll house tricked out like a lunatic asylum, and of course my obsession with bigamy.

    Blogger, Ed Champion was in the house. I want him to give a lecture at Rutgers about the free-lance boogie. He is the hardest working writer in cyberspace and in print too!

    The highlight of evening for me was meeting Tiffany, a member of a this blog community. It was cold last night. I mean really really cold. So cold that it made me want to move back to Georgia. So cold, that my friend, Aisha, was bundled from head to toe-- even inside! (She just left open a little slit so she could see the reading.) So, when I looked out from the stage and saw Tiffany... Well, I was delighted and I think she could tell!

    photos here!

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    November 19, 2007

    The Lady Hamlet

    This afternoon, I had another genuine New York Theatre experience. I saw a reading of Sarah Schulman's latest play, The Lady Hamlet at New York Theatre Workshop. For those of you not in the loop, a "reading" of a play is different from a performance. A reading consists of the actors seated in a semi-circle reading from the script. (You may recall that I participated in something similar when I was at MacDowell this summer.) This description makes it sound sort of dull, but the actors were so good that I could really imagine what the play will be like when it is actually produced.

    Did you know that before most (white) actresses hoped to one day play Blanche DuBois in A Streetcar Named Desire, the dream role was for a woman to play Hamlet? This is what lit a fire in Sarah Schulman's imagination. The Lady Hamlet is the story of Margo Stayden Burns as actress who is determined to make it to Broadway as Hamlet. Other characters include Helen De Montpelier, an actress of an earlier generation who shares the same goal, having been a "Lady Hamlet" for years in France. The play is very cerebral addressing complex questions about gender and representation. The other very cenrtal issue is the matter of mentorship. Never fear, the meaty ideas of the story never weigh down the characters or snare the plot. Schulman strikes just the right note in this piece with issues that will provoke deep thought and meaningful conversation along with characters that will steal your heart. (The actors were just wonderful.)

    After the play, there was a roundtable discussion. All participants were given a copy of the rules for the conversation "Liz Lerman's Critical Response Process." My favorite rule was that you had to ask "neutral questions." Here is an example:

    "Why is it so dark?" is NOT a nuetral question. "What ideas guided your choices about lighting?" is.
    I think this is a technique we should employ in our interpersonal relationships. (Instead of saying "Why can't you do the #@!&( laundry?!" you should say, "Baby, what impulse guides your decisions regarding soiled clothing?")

    I didn't participate too much in the after-play group discussion. I didn't feel that I know enough about drama to make meaningful comments. I tend to come at everything the way a fiction writer would. Character, character, character! So I just sat quietly and listened, and left feeling very impressed.

    (No pics, sorry. It wasn't a picture-taking kind of event.)

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    November 15, 2007

    Reports from National Book Awards

    Natasha T, Toni M, and Terry McM!Okay, I am the last blogger to weigh in on last night's festivities. Please forgive me. I've just gotten out of bed. I think I am going to break the report up into several segments. I've got so many reactions, but I just don't feel up to organizing them into one cohesive essay. So, I am thinking on entry about the food, another about the winners, another about who all I met... you get the idea.

    Let's start with the most thrilling moment of the evening. I was in the little girls room-- I followed Natasha so we could dish about two people at our table kinda-sorta coming to fisticuffs. (It was minor, but still sort of interesting. A certain agent put a Vulcan death-grip on the person sitting next to me and told him to shut up so other people could hear.) Well, I was relating this, word for word, when in walks TONI MORRISON. Gossip ceased. It wasn't appropriate to take a snap shot in the loo... so I just sort of waited and stalked. (The result: the pic on the right of Natasha, Toni Morrison, and Terri McMillan!)

    Another gushing celebrity moment was meeting Ira Glass. I am such an NPR Nerd. I will admit, here in public, to loving "This American Life." Check out the photo album. There's good stuff in there.

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    NBA: The Food!

    Sweet TrayWe started with some sort of cold potato situation. Not exactly sure what it was called. Imagine potato wrapped in smoked salmon. Not exactly my favorite treat, but I ate it anyway. Then, the entre. Lamb chops. My favorite. The dessert was a mix of things, a little dab of ice cream, some sort of soft cake-like thing. What can I say? I came, I saw, I ate. And when it was over, Natasha and I went to all all-night diner and ate again!

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    I Guess We Do Sort of Look Alike

    Asali Solomon and Tayari JonesWhile at the National Book Awards, people kept congratulating me on my nomination. Some people complimented me on my beautiful reading. When I didn't win, a couple of really nice folks said they had been pulling for me, and certainly I'll get it next time. I was gracious, of course. But here's the thing: I wasn't up for an award! They had me confused with one of the following people: Edwidge Danticat-- who was nominated for "Brother, I'm Dying." or maybe M. Sindy Felin, who was nominated for "Touching Snow" or maybe Asali Solomon who read in the 5 Under 35 event. The picture at the left is me and Asali. All black people don't look alike but we sorta do.

    Ed, got me on tape talking about this. I still stand by what I told him. I mean the flip side of all black folks seeming interchangable at an event like this is that every black woman in the room got to be a celebrity for one night!

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    November 04, 2007

    Ohio State Murders

    Last night, Sarah Schulman, my unofficial Virgil as I Dante my way through New York, took me to see Ohio State Murders, a play by Adrienne Kennedy. I was thrilled at the invitation. One of the reasons I moved from Urbana, Illinois to NYC was to, well, go to plays. But really, when you are new to town it's hard to know what to see. Sarah, an accomplished playwright, knows her way around the theatre district.

    (Self pat-on-the-back: I found my way there all by myself on the subway, no help from friends or websites!)

    The playbill was mysteriously worded, "Ohio State Murders portrays Suzanne Alexander, a fictional African American writer whose life both is, and is not, like her author's..." The effect of this was a uneasiness throughout the audience. Did this really happen? After all, the plot was pretty disturbing: An older well known black woman writer is giving a lecture at Ohio State University explaining why her work is so violent. On one level, it is a story of the birth of an intellectual and on another is a murder mystery and the crime is infanticide. When you factor in that Adrienne Kennedy is herself 76 years old and a graduate of Ohio State, you can't help but feel a tightening in your stomach.

    The tickets were a little pricey ($80), but I am glad that I went. The theater itself was only about three-quarters full with a mixed audience. There was one celebrity spotting: Cynthia Nixon from Sex in The City was there with her partner. Beside me, Sarah Schulman said, "See, she is a real actor. She goes to see good plays, not just the red carpet stuff."

    I am thinking to go to one play a month. Anyone have any suggestion as to what I should see next?

    Related links:

  • The lead in this production was played by Lisa Gay Hamilton who played Ludacris's mama on the season finale of "Law and Order: SVU".
  • But Ruby Dee originated the role in 1992.
  • The NYT gave the play a good review.
  • An interview with Adrienne Kennedy.
  • File this under "a damn shame." There is no Wikipedia entry for Adrienne Kennedy.

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  • October 18, 2007

    OMG, GWN!

    It's midnight and I have a plane to catch at 7am for Chicago, but instead of sleeping, I just had to take a minute to post about the fantastic fundraiser for Girls Write Now.

    But before I report the night's fabulousness, let me remind you what GWN is all about. Girls Write Now matches at youth girls with professional writing mentors. All the statistics are impressive, but my favorite is the 100% college acceptance rate. And since tonight's event was a fundraiser, let me encourage you to break off a little something for such a worthy cause.

    OK, that said, on with the report.

    At first I thought the event was for the girls and their mentors, but I was informed that the young folks had already had thier shin-dig at Bluestockings Bookstore earlier in the evening. The second set was for adults only. This was to be grown folks business.

    Lauren asked if I wanted to go first and I said yes because the first reader has no act to follow. Or so I thought. Before I went on, we were treated to a warm up act from a dancer/actor by the name of Creamy Stevens. Need I say more? The Slipper Room is a burlesque club, so you expect somebody to take off some clothes. I am no prude but I would prefer that the stripping happen after my reading. After Creamy left the stage I read from The Untelling and the audience was very kind and didn't ask me to remove one item of clothing and for this, I am very grateful.

    Next was Janice "Girlbomb" Erlbaum, reading from her forthcoming memoir Have you Found Her. (Can I say I can't believe she got her blog post up before me!)She read us an excerpt about volunteering in the shelter for homeless youth where she spent much of her own adolescence. Powerful stuff. When that book hits the shelves, it will be on my shelf.

    Then came the musical act. Royal Pink. Oh baby! You all know I love live music. I guess you would call them an indie rock group. They are four women singing songs about sex, politics, sex, and general female empowerment. I loved it. I bought their CD and a shirt and a sticker.

    The evening was wrapped up with Miss Saturn, a hoola hooping professional. And, a cosmo with the band!

    Pictures? Of course there are pictures!

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    July 31, 2007

    92 Ain't Nothing But A Number

    Raquel Hill has John Hope Franklin and Tyehimba Jess has Les Paul.

    Yesterday, I placed a call to Tyehimba Jess right before getting on the Path train to return to Jersey. “I’m on my way to a concert,” he said. (He knows that I love myself a concert.) “I’ll pay your cover,” he promised. “I’ll even buy you a gimlet.” (He had me at “concert”, but I gladly accepted all the other promises.)

    Once we were in the taxi, he explained that was a rare opportunity. The headliner, Les Paul, is 92 years old. “He’s not going to be on the planet for long! The man is a legend! He changed the sound of the blues!”

    When we got to The Iridium Jazz Club, there was a line wrapped around the building. Les Paul’s fans were many and devoted. The man sells out two shows every Monday. Word spread through the crowd that the show was sold out.

    “I’m sorry, Tyehimba,” I said. “I know you must be disappointed.”
    “Wait,” he said. “Maybe there will be some extra seats.”
    “Well,” I said. “If there’s only one seat left, I want you to take it.”
    “Really?” he said.
    “Yeah, really.”
    He got all choked up. “Thanks Sis.”
    “It’s fine,” I said, disentangling myself and pushing him a little toward the door way. “Take the last seat.”
    From behind us, people in line commented, “That’s a good woman.”

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    July 29, 2007

    If this Town Is Just An Apple...

    Tyehimba Jess and the SongbirdLast night, I went to the Bowery Poetry Club... Well, I spent the day trying to get to the Bowery Poetry Club. I intended to make the 3pm celebration of the life of Sekou Sundiata. However, I couldn't get my act together. The next event at the BPC was Roger Bonair Agard performing "To Be Young, Fast, and Black." Sadly, I Dynamic Triomissed that too, but everyone was raving about it. I am happy to report that I did make it to the after-party.

    In the crowd were some of my favorite poets, including one Tyehimba Jess, whom I hadn't seen in way too long. I also met Willie Perdomo, whose reputation precedes him.

    Roger and RuthAnd speaking of things I missed, night before last, everyone went to see Latasha Diggs WOW the crowd at the Whitney.

    Here are some random pics.

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    June 03, 2007

    Let's Do It Again!

    Last night, The Brand New Heavies played the Highline Ballroom and turned it out.

    I was hoping, this time, to finally meet the band. My chances were Dream on, Dreamer! good. I had received an email from thier manager promising a backstage pass, but alas, when I arrived, my name wasn't on the list and I felt like a gate crasher. "I'm Tayari," I pleaded. "Tayari-the-blogger!" No dice.

    It was all good, though. I was there with my best girlfriends, Vickie and Aisha (you may remember them from other BNH events) and Vickie and Aisha each brought a friend and (as usual) and we made friends once we got there. One of the best things about BNH is that their fans are extremely cool. Once the music started we all did what we do best. We danced, we sang. When I say dance, I mean, we really showed out. I am talking about spins and kicks.

    Afterwards, we all went over to Tillman's for the after-set. The place was pretty packed, but the host was a Morehouse Man and membership does have its privileges. We were seated with our new friends, Carmia and Gregg. (She's a designer and he's a photographer.)Just when I thought the evening was winding down, in walked N'DEA DAVENPORT, the lead singer.

    She is so beautiful with a radiant spirit. She stopped at our table. "I saw all of you out there." I was hoping she would compliment us on our spins and kicks, but this was good enough. We gushed, we laughed. And I couldn't think of anything to say! Me, with nothing to say!

    She was about to walk away, and I at least had to say, something. I didn't want to tell her that I spent all last summer on the Greyhound chasing the band up and down the eastern seaboard. I definitely wasn't going to try the "I'm Tayari, the blogger", thing again.

    She was turning to go toward what I guess was the VIP area when I called out, "I think your music has great integrity!"

    N'Dea was all glammed out in a silk kimono jacket and fancy sunglasses, but she really really heard what I said, or even better, she heard what I meant.

    "Thank you," she said. "That's important to me."

    The pictures are really fun!

    Rachel just sent me a link to her pretty, artsy, professional-camera, mad skills, photos from the night!

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